About Me
WHAT IF I TOLD YOU THAT EVERYTHING YOU KNOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS IS WRONG?
I used to be a hopeless romantic. From a very young age I would devour romance novels, watch every single romantic comedy that came out. I always believed in the power of love and it was the focus of my creative writing. Is it any wonder I moved from my hometown in Germany to pursue a career in Hollywood? Being a young girl and writer navigating the dating scene in LA, I wrote a screenplay about my experiences which was optioned by a production company and laid the foundation for my dating advice column in the Santa Monica Daily Press. The irony of it was that my personal dating life was nothing but disappointment and drama. Needless to say, I felt like an imposter. Who was I to give dating advice?
However, the occasional emails from readers who reached out to thank me for my articles made me realize that this work was important, because no matter our age, gender, background, how educated or successful we are or where we come from, LOVE is a human universal.
The more I would receive these messages, the more I felt the need to help these people – but giving advice based on pop psychology and personal anecdotes was not the way. Most importantly, I needed to walk the talk.
Goodbye Hollywood, Hello Academia
On a mission to “hack” love, I packed my bags, quit my dating advice column and pursued a full-time MSc in Psychology in London. That’s when I discovered Evolutionary Psychology and Attachment Theory. I was blown away by how much of our behavior in dating can be explained by these frameworks.
It was like a light bulb went on. My passion for these subjects led me to pursue a PhD, and here I am, a doctoral relationship researcher at last turned life - and dating & relationship coach.
TESTIMONIALS
My Coaching Method
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Sexual
Learn about your sexual strategy
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Mate Value
Learn about your mate value in the dating market
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Attachment
Learn about your attachment style
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Personality
Learn how your (and partner’s) personality traits affect your dating/relationship
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Spark
Learn how to keep the spark alive
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Stress
Learn how stress affects your relationship and how you can manage it
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